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Acquaintance V.S. Best Friend

In today’s story I will share with you about friends and how I have had friends and come and go and how I make friends and what type of friends you should be looking for. So here we go! Hope you enjoy this story!

Growing up I never had really best friends, I mostly considered everyone a friend then slowly friends started drifting off and then I found myself alone sometimes and ever since that happened I was always sitting by myself at lunch or during recess just sitting in the corner. The day had come I was entering high school and to mention this was a new high school and I didn’t know anyone I felt completely lost because I didn’t know anyone. After a few weeks I started making friends. I met this girl and she was in a few of my classes and suddenly I connected with her and we would always hang out. Then the time came graduation... ever since then we have not yet seen each other. During high school I met a girl from my church she was new to my church and we connected well  then on the weekends we would always hang out, she would stay for a couple days and my house she was like a part of my family. We were like sisters I told her a lot about me and she told me a lot about her story. We started drifting away from each other for some reasons and now we no longer speak to each other. Ever since those two friends that I thought we be my friends for a long time I have learned to not get attached to anyone that I come into contact we because I know they will just leave me and I will just not be worth getting to know someone or letting them in my life. Now that I’m 22 I feel that I need friends because I would like to share with someone how I’m feeling or to just ask them for advice.  So now I’m trying to be a little bit more outgoing and connect with people.

I share these stories with you to show you how I make friends and how I have friends. Now ill share some advice and some articles and quotes to help you know to surround yourself with great friends.

I read at article by Elite Daily the topic of this article is-  It’s Quality: I Don’t Want A Lot Of Friends, I Just Want Deep Ones. They listed a few things about how to look for friends and I pulled some one that I can rely to and what I want in a friend and what possibly that you can look for in a friend. Here is the link for the article: http://elitedaily.com/life/culture/i-want-deep-friends

Here are my top 7:

I don’t want Facebook messages; I want deep conversations.

I don’t want friends to talk about others; I want friends who inspire others.

I don’t want friends who judge; I want friends who empower.

I don’t want friends who just talk; I want friends who listen and absorb.

I don’t want friends who share gossip; I want friends who share stories.

I don’t want friends to chill with; I want friends to explore with.

I don’t want friends who carry the weight of the world; I want friends who want to improve the world.

Hope you enjoyed this blog! I pray blessings over you!

♥Always, Brook Prado